when someone you know gets a job you quit because it was too emotionally tasking and then keeps writing posts about how #fulfilling it is to work for a #nonprofit and it sort of makes you feel like you're supposed to feel like a piece of shit

But you totally don't, and you totally buy their feelings, but it doesn't change the fact that you, with those same experiences, wrote derisive posts focusing on your self-centralized distaste for the position...and it's not bad, it's just not #nurturing.