considering Rrrr fantasies...and it is tricky. but, not the most uneasy thing. what are taboos?

could be, only way, feel comfortable with sexuality? 
if the choice is not theirs, the act.
some so-called shame: out of their control.
the way we function, even on those, 

such intimate levels are a sign of conditioning—

we too bleed rape culture, it fundamentalizes.