somethings are called words like life, but whatever that is? Words.

Family: to remain dependent, or, rather, co-dependent, to work within a closed system of 4 people.
make own decisions, some psych drama
no freedom from guilt of leaving,
some tweens always lead to pain

fundamentally selfish people, like everyone else, unwilling to acknowledge that their
brand of selfishness is no better nor worse than another's version of self-propagation.