still unconvinced that we don't need something more radical than empathy

"On Friday if a state of affairs should arise that causes hurt feelings, it may help to be reminded that there are those whose wounds never heal."

the wounds that don't heal are the systemic ones...the personal is a one-time shot /or/ can be evaded, but the systemic repeat offends in many ways, even by your loves, unknown to them, we cannot crawl out of you, *crystal-heal-me, empathy* mostly you are word without action. give me object