when they said you get treated differently based on presentation I wanted to have a squared conversation about just presentation for own

but we cannot deny the social, and
there was something in there like a...
saying we are treated as we are based
on presentation, both of us with many
occasions of difference, but there was
also something of a reprimand in the
suggestion, which isn't totally unlike
"slut-shaming" except, both spectrum,
"gender-performative-shaming". basically
saying: this is how you get treated and so
even if you are a slider, stay steady and
avoid femme at all costs. avoid me. we.